Dealing With Anger

Hello Sisters,

During the course of the week, I watched a man puff in so much anger for days. He wouldn't talk to anyone about the reason for his anger (apparently, he was angry with someone/people).

I also noticed the people he was really angry with were living their normal lives, happy and literally feeling light. This man looked like he had a truck load of heavy stones inside of him. He wouldn't forgive them and neither was he talking to them about the offense.

This made me realize that uncontrolled anger only affects the offended and mostly has no effect on the offendee.

Here is my point, if there is an offense committed that has gotten you really pissed at someone, kindly walk up to them and set your self free from the burden and weight. Anger is so much bondage, please, don't remain in it.

If for some reasons, you can't talk to the offendee about the issue, kindly forgive them in your heart and live your once happy and weight free life.

This week, release everyone that you might have held one thing or the other against so that you might receive so much peace and joy.

I pray you receive strength and grace to regardless of the weight of the offense. Amen

Lots of love sis.

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